I know the theory about detachment but sometimes it is so
hard to practise it. This morning I drove down a ramp to enter the supermarket
and found a car blocking my entry point. Who does that?
I didn't have an easy way of backing out, particularly after
another car drove down the ramp behind me. Fortunately someone walked by so I
could ask them if they knew whose car it was, and the owner soon emerged and
moved his car. But the feeling of frustration stayed.
Whenever someone does something that doesn't seem quite
right, I remind myself that sometimes I can do similar things. However it’s
hard to apply this rationale today because there is no way that I would ever
block an entry point to a public car park.
Hence the need to detach. The easiest way to do this is to
mentally step back and observe my own reaction. Feeling frustrated doesn't
really help me because I move into a negative place. Acknowledging the
frustration and also that the other driver might have had an emergency or other
valid reason for blocking the entry point makes it easier to let go of the
incident and reach a place of calm. Ah, now I am detached and free.